Anti-Aging Advice from a Veteran Beauty Editor

It's not all about wrinkle creams

So what do I know about anti-aging? Honestly, more than I’d care to admit. I’ve spent the last 20 years reporting on the beauty front and during that time I’ve tested hundreds of skincare products and I have a good sense of what really works (and what really doesn’t). My interest in the subject is not merely academic: I personally REALLY want to know which wrinkles creams and brightening serums will make my skin look like a baby’s butt (ahh, to dream). The truth is that lifestyle matters more than anything—a reality that almost any woman over 30 can attest to from firsthand experience. Wearing sunscreen everyday, eating a clean, whole foods diet, avoiding smoke, not drinking that third (or fourth) glass of wine: These are the things that make the most profound difference in how well you age. As Coco Chanel famously said, “Nature gives you the face you have at 20. Life shapes the face you have at 30. But at 50, you get the face you deserve.” I have high hopes for 50! So, without further ado, here’s my best anti-aging advice.


If you don’t want to try Botox (in the immortal words of Sex & The City’s Samantha Jones, “that works every time!”) then your next best bet for anti-aging is a prescription retinoid (in fact, many people do both). Use these only at night because they make skin photosensitive and don’t play well with some other anti-aging ingredients. Since they can be irritating, you should start out using them just a couple times a week to see how your skin handles it. Use only a pea-sized drop on your entire face—any more and you will definitely be inflamed. If that still seems too harsh, consider an over the counter retinol.

TBE skincare product picks: Youth Corridor RetinUltimate Transforming Gel ($450,; Olay Regenerist Intensive Repair Treatment ($16, Studies show this product produces comparable results to .02% tretinoin after 24 weeks and is much better tolerated by sensitive skin. RoC Retinol Correxion Sensitive Night Cream ($20,


To protect skin from sun and pollution, you need to start each day with two layers: the thinnest product (the antioxidant serum) goes on first, then follow that with a broad spectrum sunscreen that won’t make you breakout.

TBE skincare product picksSkinceuticals C & E Ferulic ($155, If you are looking for a less expensive option, try Boots No. 7 Protect and Perfect Serum, $27, Like Skinceuticals, this serum contains a stabilized form of vitamin C (but costs less and contains hexapeptides that enhance its efficacy). Elta MD, $33, –  this one absorbs instantly and is non-comedogenic.


The late Frederic Brandt once told me that the biggest anti-aging mistake many women make is not doing anything about age-related volume loss. He believed that the changing structure of your face is what really makes you look old, not wrinkles. If you can afford it, the most natural way to preserve your appearance over time is to carefully combine small amounts of filler with small amounts of Botox (you should still be able to see wrinkles when you smile). This is what virtually every single actress in Hollywood knows but never talks about (in fact many of the ones who vehemently claim they never do Botox actually just use fillers). This will help preserve the buoyant cheekbones of your late 20s/early 30s without making you look like a statue at Madame Tussauds.

TBE recommends: Dr. Dendy Engelman (820 2nd Ave. NYC 212-661-3376); Dr. Michelle Yagoda (1025 Fifth Ave. NYC 212-434-1210); Derek H. Jones (9201 W. Sunset Blvd. LA, 310-246-0495) 

A The Mediterranean diet, which is rich in radiance boosting phyto-nutrients and healthy fats such as Omega 3s, is the ultimate anti-aging diet
Photo courtesy Harvard Health Publications


Mediterranean foods are low in sugar, high in fiber and lean protein. They’re also loaded with antioxidants and other radiance-boosting phytonutrients. By contrast, the highly refined, overly processed diet typical of most Americans actually accelerates wrinkling and sagging. If you can’t imagine radically changing your diet, consider investing in some high quality multivitamins. Swallowing a spoonful of essential fatty acids everyday can also help counter inflammation. Finally, consider taking a clinically proven anti-aging supplement.

TBE skincare product picks: Shaklee Vita-Lea with iron, 240 count, $52, Nordic Naturals Ultimate Omega, $54, amazon.comImedeen Prime Renewal Skin Collagen Formula Beauty Supplement, $73, Though nutritionists insist whole foods are always better, a recent double blind placebo controlled study proved this unique combination (marine complex 210mg, vitamin C 54mg, zinc 4mg) could provide “significant improvements in the appearance of facial photodamage.”

Curtailing your booze intake=major anti-aging benefits
Photo Comedy Central


Smoking constricts blood vessels which impairs blood flow, so less oxygen and fewer vital nutrients reach your face. Picture Magda, the chain smoking old lady in Something About Mary and you get the idea of what this does to your complexion over time. Alcohol is the other major beauty thief. A major diuretic, it causes the body to retain water, leaving skin dry and puffy, which, over time, leads to more wrinkling. It is also a hepa toxin which compromises the functioning of your liver, the body’s main detoxification system. And all that late night peeing? It’s not just wreaking havoc on your beauty sleep, it’s also robbing your skin of radiance by sending key beauty vitamins (A,C, E, D and K) down the toilet. If you don’t want to totally kick the habit, derms recommend sticking with clear liquors that are relatively low in congeners and sugar such as vodka, tequila or gin. They get out of your skin more quickly and are less likely to cause a spike in blood sugar, which causes wrinkles.

TBE recommends: If you drink more than 2 glasses of wine, take a B-complex vitamin supplement plus extra thiamin (100 mg). Consider also taking a milk thistle supplement. Studies show it can help detoxify the liver. Siymarin, which is the active component in milk thistle has anti-fibrotic, anti-viral, antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties which help protect liver cells from damage caused by alcohol.

fuller brows have an anti-aging effect
Photo courtesy Smart Brow


As we get older, the hair in our brows, like the hair on our heads, gets thinner. Brows add structure and symmetry to your facial features, so you don’t want that scaffolding to get shaky. The most effective anti-aging fix: microblading, a new type of brow tattooing procedure (Olivia Palermo is reportedly a fan). Check out how it’s done here.

TBE brow product picks: Guerlain Universal Eyebrow Kit ($53,; Smartbrow ($60,, a semi-permanent brow filler which uses a blend of polymers and microscopic hair-like fibers fill in any thinning or sparse spots.

nuface trinity: the ultimate anti-aging gadget

9.  Zap Your Jowls

There was a time, not long ago, when the doctor’s office was the only place where you could really expect to see a meaningful change in your skin. But anti-aging technology has come a long way in recent years and now there are a slew of home gadgets that totally work—maybe not as well as a professional treatment but well enough to be worthy of an investment.

TBE skincare product picks: Nu Face Toning Device ($325, It uses electrical waves to stimulate the muscles in your face, causing an instant lifting and firming effect.


As we get older, the fat pads under our eyes shift, causing a once temporary problem (induced by say, polishing off a bag of Barbecue Pop Chips before bed) to become a bit more intractable. So what can you do if you wake up looking like the bottom of a jar of Gefilte fish? Apply chilled spoons or a gel ice pack to eyes for at least five minutes. The cold causes blood vessels to constrict, reducing swelling. Products with caffeine, albumin, or hexapeptides (argireline) can also temporarily tighten the eye area. Zapping this area with some targeted electrical stimulation helps, too. If you already own the Nuface toning device (above), simply buy the attachment for eyes.

TBE skincare picks:  Sudden Change Under-Eye Firming Serum ($9; You have to apply it very carefully—think one small drop under the eye then pat, pat, pat with your ring finger. Nuface Trinity Ele Attachment, $149,

RELATED: The Best Eye Creams 2017: Buh-bye Puffiness, Wrinkles and Dark Circles 


I used to wear my hair in a messy bun almost every day in my twenties and thirties. And then at some point in my early 40s, I started noticing that I no longer looked cool and jaunty—I looked like a disgruntled librarian who hadn’t washed her hair in a week. When I interviewed Jennifer Aniston recently for the cover of InStyle, she told me a ponytail is her “go-to everyday style.” And for good reason: It visually pulls the cheekbones up, making the whole face look more lifted. Bonus points if you add soft bangs and/or long layers around the face, which soften hard lines and downplay any asymmetry.


The other great piece of anti-aging advice Jennifer Aniston gave me? Take advantage of non-invasive techniques like Fraxel (fractional laser), Thermage (radio frequency) and Ultherapy (ultrasound). These treatments help tighten skin, reduce fine lines and improve skin texture. If you want to improve the radiance of your skin, there is nothing more effective.

RELATED: Read my InStyle cover story with Jennifer Aniston here.


Unless, of course, you DO want to look like Miss Havisham from Great Expectations. Even loose “translucent” powder should be approached with caution. Whatever skin products you use should be dewy and illuminating, not drying and shine-zapping.

TBE glowy skin picks: Beauty Pie Triple Beauty Liquid Luminizer ($28, $2.88 members, Uma Ultimate Brightening Face Oil ($150,


Three words: Tammy. Faye. Baker. Spidery lashes don’t look good on anyone, let alone women over 40. Heavy mascara on the bottom lashes can cast shadows under your eyes, which exacerbates circles. Some women find they look younger by forgoing mascara altogether. My advice: Use a light hand and a tiny wand for natural, non-clumpy lashes.

TBE non-clumpy mascara pick: L’Oreal Telescopic mascara ($8;


Spending 20 minutes a day training your brain to be less reactive to stress is a great investment in your sanity—not to mention your ability to age gracefully.

TBE tech meditation picks: OMG I Can Meditate (free on, Headspace (free, on


One of the wonderful things about getting older (and having kids)? It really just beats the narcissism right out of you. And that’s a good thing. When I look at my face now, I don’t see crow’s feet and marionette lines, I see years of passionate living, loving and laughter. As I’ve gotten older, my interest in beauty has evolved from a relentless focus on looking perfect according to someone else’s ideal to looking good enough for me. I’ve had what one makeup artist generously called “Charlotte Rampling eyes” and a co-worker called “the type of droopy upper lids that are perfect candidates for blepharoplasty” since I was a baby. But why would I want to change that? It’s such a part of me that I would look like a completely different person if I ever did anything about it. And you know what the best thing about getting older is: At 45, I actually like myself and don’t want to see a stranger when I look in the mirror every morning.



Amy Synnott

Amy Synnott

Founding Editor
Amy Synnott is the founder of The Beautiful Edit. A graduate of the Columbia Graduate School of Journalism, Amy spent most of her career at InStyle magazine, where she worked as a the Beauty Director from 2000-2013 and the Executive Editor from 2013-2016. Originally from Boston, Amy currently lives in NYC with her husband, two children, and Labrador, Lucy.